Insomnia is not uncommon after the loss of a loved one …
This lady I would like to talk to you about had an experience that could happen to anyone. Her husband died and she could not sleep.
For two weeks she just could not sleep and when I asked if I could help her, she declined.
I saw her again a few days later and invited her to come in and talk to me because she looked terrible.
Attached by love
I discovered her husband in Spirit had attached himself to her and it was not for the reason you would expect. A lot of people have this happen because they can’t let their loved one go and so without realising this, they trap their loved ones who cannot then completely pass on.
Their Spirit becomes agitated as they are not sure what has happened to them and the person they attach to feels this and becomes agitated also.
Attached by hate
This lady had her husband attach with hate. She told me that he was a diabetic and had not looked after himself. He had wasted their money on alcohol and because he was a diabetic, alcohol was very bad for him.
As time went on he lost his sight and had very little use of his legs and he took it out on her.
I explained now that he is in Spirit he is not the nasty man she knew and if I was to help her send him on she would have to show him some love.
Love was the last thing on her mind!
After a lot of talk I was finally able to convince her that he was not the same person and together we helped him on his way so he could continue his path.
That night was the best night sleep she had had in weeks.
Please remember if a loved one passes, love them but let them go for your sake and theirs.
Love to all,
Estella
